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dominicana4ever
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   Posted 5/1/2006 8:58 AM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
i need to know which is it that guys want more. i mean is it easier to have a friends wit benefits then to have a boyfriend. i was talkin wit me b/f  and he said he didnt want me as a girlfriend he wanted me to be his friend with benfits. so tell me guys which one is better for you?


yo its ya girl the dominicana looking for that one guy that  can make me laugh and be my boo. if you out there give me a holla!!!

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   Posted 5/1/2006 1:30 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
friends wit benifits
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   Posted 5/3/2006 9:21 AM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
any specific reason or you just like the no strings attached...?


yo its ya girl the dominicana looking for that one guy that  can make me laugh and be my boo. if you out there give me a holla!!!

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   Posted 5/3/2006 3:44 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
friends wit benefits really
no strings and da lyk and sum otha s*** involved dar


Im not addicted 2 sex......it's jus a habit
Sum say sex is overated...i say dey aint doin it ryt

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   Posted 5/9/2006 12:40 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
No that does not mean that at all. i have a friend with benefits and we was togehter for 3 year before anything pop off and now were the closet thing possible.
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   Posted 5/9/2006 12:41 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
No that does not mean that at all. i have a friend with benefits and we was togehter for 3 year before anything pop off and now were the closet thing possible. and I'm a young lady he change the way i look thing different.
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   Posted 5/9/2006 3:57 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
dominicana4ever said...
any specific reason or you just like the no strings attached...?

hardknocc is a girl baby..she wana lick ya **** lol..
 
depends on how im feelin..right now, friends w/ benefits
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   Posted 5/10/2006 12:55 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
friends with benifits even though i have a regular girlfriend


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   Posted 5/11/2006 9:30 AM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
ight my guy friends all say that they got g/f's but they still NEED that girl on the side is it for all guys please explain.....


yo its ya girl the dominicana looking for that one guy that  can make me laugh and be my boo. if you out there give me a holla!!!

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   Posted 5/11/2006 10:09 AM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
naw i say my girlfriend iz all i need. u know it wouldnt be a bad idea tohave a gurl on the side but u know me and my gurl have been together for 5 monthes this saterday. she treats me right. beside all most guys want a gurl on the side for booty calls. man i dont play like that.
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   Posted 5/11/2006 10:19 AM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
yea i agree wit jay....ion f*** wit no other females if i got a gal.......that s*** aint right.......but it dosent matter right now cuz im single bitches!!!! but yea a friend w/benefits is cool but i like havin a girl betta...cuz i can get wit her any time, but not wit your "friend w/ benefits" they might be f***in wit somebody else n den niggas might start catchin feelins n s*** so i avoid dat type of s***
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   Posted 5/11/2006 1:44 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I ain't going to front what guys want is sex no lie but some other guys want a gurlfriend and the gurl they wanna get with is scared cause they think that guy is out to get it.
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   Posted 5/11/2006 7:24 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
"i need to know which is it that guys want more. i mean is it easier to have a friends wit benefits then to have a boyfriend"

It sounds like you're talking to homos, but I see you're asking if its easier to have f/w/b or a girlfriend. Are you curious as to what the ladies think as well? We're not all that different. It's easier to have f/w/b because you keep all the power, but like one of the guys above said, people can catch feelings. After my husband and I seperated, the second guy I messed around with was like that (a f/w/b...smooth lyrics like LL), He'd call to check on my ****, wasn't too much but brought it when the time was right...tried to get me to do all sorts of freaky things, he really wanted to turn me out, but he ended up falling for me in a way he didn't plan on...I'm a rare breed, a true one of a kind...lol...anyway, I saw this girl one day that I found out was pregnant with his baby and I cut him off. Then I started dating this great guy from Barbados who was a vegetarian, no kids, no other women, sweet and sensitive, younger than me...it was a good thing. Anyway, to make a long story short, that last guy couldn't accept the fact that I had cut him off and called me one night asking if he could come over...I said no...went back to sleep. In the middle of the night someone was knocking on my door and I went to see what/who it was. It was this guy. I was like what's up, letting him in as a friend, thinking he would honor the fact that we weren't in that other type of relationship (f/w/b), still sleepy. He was like go get a condom. No. You better get one, cause you know what I want. Now, my two children were sleeping and I saw the look in his eye and knew he was serious. Even worse than doing what he said would be fighting him, waking my children for them to witness it, so I did get a condom. He started doing his thing, noticing I wasn't happy about it, said no, that's not what I want, pulled the condom off and finished doing his thing. I did end up going to the ER and filled out a kit to get the morning after pill, but it didn't work and that is how my third daughter was conceived. The great guy from Barbados was so sad and overwhelmed that he left the country. The story goes on and on and theirs much more before it, but that is an experience in my life that showed me how f/w/b can turn ugly. I didn't press any charges on him because I know that the times we spent before had added to whatever fever led him to do what he did (I know I smelled some hennesey that night, too), but now we don't even talk and I have this beautiful little girl, and things aren't easy. Consiquences are a mother f***er! I say date lots of different people (without sex) until you meet one you want to keep forever and then marry. A husband is better than a boyfriend or a f/w/b. And this has been therapy with SAFE....Peace.


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   Posted 5/11/2006 7:47 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I gotta chick and she is sexy as hell and i couldnt even think about cheatin cuz she would probably try to stab me so im cool on friends wit benefits LOL!
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   Posted 5/15/2006 9:28 AM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
know what thanks IMSAFE i like that story i guess you right. friends wit benefits are hard and so are regular b/f g/f relationships but im saying in the long run its better to wait for that one special person.


yo its ya girl the dominicana looking for that one guy that  can make me laugh and be my boo. if you out there give me a holla!!!

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   Posted 6/16/2006 1:59 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
some people got f/w/b because they don't want people all in their business. I did that wit this gurl, to me and her we were g/f and b/f, but to everyone else we were friends. That's the real definition of friends wit benifits. Plus u can get dental, lol : )
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   Posted 6/16/2006 11:33 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
WHATEVA FLOATS YO BOAT... LOL
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   Posted 6/17/2006 2:59 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
WHATEVER YALL DECIDE, JUST TRY TO KEEP IT SAFE. MY CLASS OF HIGH SCHOOL JUST GRADUATED, AND ALONG WITH MY BEST FREIND, ABOUT 20 GURLS FROM OUR CLASS ARE PREGNATE OR HAVE KIDS. NEEDLESS TO SAY THEY AINT GRADUATIN EITHER. ACCEPT FOR MY HOMEGURL, SHE'S DOIN HER THING. WORKIN, SUPPORTIN HER KID AND GOIN TO SCHOOL. BUT AS FOR THE OTHERS, THEY JUST SIT AT HOME TAKIN CARE OF THEIR KID. AND MOST OF THEIR BABYS DADDYS AINT THERE.


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   Posted 6/18/2006 2:08 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
friends wit benefits = less of a hassle, and more sex

gf/bf = more than just sex, more ties and boundaries


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   Posted 6/18/2006 6:46 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
YEA DAT "FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS" STUFF IS WUZZZZZZUUUUUPPPP!!!! WHICH REMINDS ME I THINK I'M DUE FOR SOME...... BE-NI-FI-TS.....

SOME BODY IN THE BUILDIN' SING IT WIT ME
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YOU'RE GONNA MISS ME WHEN I'M GONE...
SEND ME A PRIVATE MESSAGE...
I CHECK MY EMAIL...


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   Posted 6/18/2006 9:03 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Frenz wit benefits is cool sometimes buh it depends, i was FWB wit my ex for a while afta we broke up buh den we ended up goin bak out anyways, it wasnt really a difference well da only difference was he did have the option 2 have a gurlfren since we were jus FWB.. buh now we jus frenz, lol not FWB

i think some guys prefer FWb tho, Not ALL buh plenty..


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   Posted 10/8/2006 3:43 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.

OKAY I WILL CONTRIDICT MY SELF NOW...THAT'S NOT WHAT IS UP...IF THE BENIFITS YOU ARE REFERING TO ARE "PHYSICALLY" SEXUAL AND YOU'RE NOT DIGGIN' YOURSELF WITH THEM IN A REALATIONSHIP...THEN YOU MIGHT AS WELL NOT RUIN A FRIENDSHIP...THE PERSON YOU ARE MENT FOR...WILL COMPLETE YOUR MIND BODY AND SOUL BEFORE YOU DO THE DEED...ANYTHING ELSE WOULD BE LUST...

YES I STYLL LIKE THAT BUCK SONG THO...

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YEA DAT "FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS" STUFF IS WUZZZZZZUUUUUPPPP!!!! WHICH REMINDS ME I THINK I'M DUE FOR SOME...... BE-NI-FI-TS.....

SOME BODY IN THE BUILDIN' SING IT WIT ME
"I WANNA BE YOUR LOVER..... I REALLY WANNA DRIVE YOU....CRAZY"

YOU'RE GONNA MISS ME WHEN I'M GONE...
SEND ME A PRIVATE MESSAGE...
I CHECK MY EMAIL...


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   Posted 10/10/2006 3:36 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
id rather have a hubby....lol.....but i would choose bf....friend maybe....but bf...cuz wit a friend u don't wanna ruin yall relationship...cuz of yall horniess


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   Posted 10/13/2006 5:10 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I AIN'T GONNA LIE BOYFRIEND IS TO MUCH WORK
GETTIN TO NO THE PERSON
STARTIN A RELATIONSHIP AND ALL THE STEPS IN BETWEEN
AND IM A BITCH AND I KINDA LIKE FRIEND WITH BEN.
CUZ IF U DO THE s*** RIGHT
U GET ALL THE DICK IN THE WORLD BY THAT ONE PERSON
WITH NO STRING ATTACHED
OR NO BAD FEELINGS
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   Posted 10/17/2006 12:55 PM (GMT -5)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I agree with anonymous
friends with benefits 1st....then take it to the next level if yall both feel comfortable
cuz some of yall bitches.....i mean women be trippin(like yall own s***)when in a relationship
and if im just ya friend....then i dont have to worry about who you messin round wit and u dont have to try to cover it up

but you have to earn wifey or girlfriend status....it isnt just givin


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